Monday, September 22, 2014

Monday Messages-Listening

http://pinterest.com/pin/24066179231175224 An old proverb states, “There is no one so deaf as he or she who will not listen.” Hearing is a faculty, whereas listening is a skill certainly everyone can improve upon. Make it a goal and practice really listening “with the intent to understand,” rather than just waiting for your turn to reply. ... Enjoy more from Ralph W. Emerson http://pinterest.com/pin/24066179229133368







Emerson's quote makes me ponder how often I really listen.  Sometimes I do just wait for my turn to talk.  The best way I know to make sure we are really listening is to reflect back to the person what they just said-but not in a parroting or patronizing way.  Maybe in a personal absorbing kind of way.  Like we have really heard and taken it into our heart.  Also, when we look into the person's eyes when they are speaking, we are connecting better.  It's something to work on.

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